How to Create a Life You Love: The Power of a Clear Vision

Who do I want to be? This is a question I’ve been asking myself a lot lately. It doesn’t take long for me to come up with a solid foundation of who I want to be (I’ll get into that later), but I often find myself lacking clear guidance on how to actually become that person.

I mean, who doesn’t want to be happy, healthy, and wealthy?

But then I flip the question: Who DON’T I want to be? And suddenly, I find a lot more clarity.

As I’m writing this blog, I’m also working to create a really vivid vision for myself—which is the first and a crucial step of the Neuro Fulfillment Method.

The Neuro Fulfillment Method

The Neuro Fulfillment Method is a science-backed approach I use in my coaching to help people create a life that feels deeply aligned, fulfilling, and authentic. This method is built on three essential pillars:

1. Rediscover and Clarify Your Vision – Get clear on what you truly want so you can take intentional steps toward it.
2. Cultivate Unshakable Belief in Yourself – Rewire limiting beliefs and build the confidence to make bold moves.
3. Create a Realistic and Empowering Plan – Turn your vision into actionable, achievable steps.

The process starts with setting a clear vision, because without a destination, it’s impossible to chart the right path.

Creating a Vision

If you don’t know where you’re going, how will you ever get there? This is why setting a vision is the foundation of transformation. It’s not just about listing goals—it’s about vividly imagining the person you want to become and the life you want to live.

To create a strong vision:

• Get specific. Don’t just say, “I want to be happy.” Define what happiness looks like for you.
• Engage your senses. Close your eyes and picture your future self—what do you see, hear, feel? (PS sometimes it’s hard for me to picture so I LOVE creating a vision board for myself. Take a peek at mine here.) 
• Write it down. Studies show that writing down your vision increases the likelihood of achieving it.
• Focus on how you want to feel. Your goals should align with the emotions you want to experience daily.

Why It Matters So Much

A clear vision does more than give you direction—it activates your brain’s reticular activating system (RAS), helping you notice opportunities that align with your goals. It also serves as a powerful motivator, keeping you focused when distractions and doubts arise.

When you clarify your vision, you’re setting yourself up for purpose-driven success instead of just drifting through life. You begin making choices that align with your values rather than reacting to external pressures.

My Vision

Here’s what my personal vision looks like:

Who I Want to Be

• Healthy – Competing in sports like biking, softball, and boxing. Eating only the freshest food. Hiring a personal trainer.
• Happy – Fully present in the moment, soaking up life’s small joys.
• Wealthy – Running successful businesses, traveling with my nieces and nephews, and funding education opportunities through organizations like BECA (my goal: send 5,000 kids to school in my lifetime).
• Growing – Constantly learning and investing in myself.
• Authentic – Loving deeply, embracing adventure, and showing up as my true self.

Who I Don’t Want to Be

• Closed-minded – I want to stay curious about the world and others.
• Dependent on external crutches – My happiness and energy come from within, not from substances.
• Money-driven – Success should never come at the cost of my values.
• Afraid – Of taking chances, meeting new people, or failing. I want to take bold action despite fear.

Ready to Get Clear on Your Vision?

If you’re feeling stuck, unsure of your next steps, or struggling with self-doubt, let’s work together. Through my 1:1 coaching, I’ll help you create a clear vision, overcome limiting beliefs, and build an action plan that actually works.

The life you want is waiting—but it starts with clarity. Are you ready to define yours?

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