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We all carry stories—silent beliefs we didn’t choose, but somehow adopted as truth. “I’m too much.”“I’m not enough.”“Other people get to live freely, but I can’t.”“I’ll feel better once I accomplish __.”“If I slow down, I’ll fall apart.” Most of these stories don’t shout. They whisper. They hide in our choices, our patterns, our resistance. […]

Here’s What Neuroscience Says About Why Love Works Better For years, I believed that shame was the spark I needed to change. If I could just criticize myself enough—if I felt bad enough—maybe I’d finally do something about it. But neuroscience paints a very different picture. When we operate from shame, we aren’t tapping into […]

There are moments I look back and cringe.At the awkward phrasing in an old blog.At the clunky website designs I once proudly sent to clients.At the way I stayed confronted my best friend when she went back into an abusive relationship.At how I didn’t know what to say when a friend stopped eating lunch in […]

I’m sitting at the airport as I write this. Solo. Headed out on another adventure I used to be too scared to even imagine. There was a time I never would have done this. The thought of navigating travel alone made me spiral — What if I got lost? What if I couldn’t figure out […]

Have you ever had that voice in your head telling you you’re not good enough, that you’ll never succeed, or that you’re making the wrong decision? That inner critic can be relentless, always second-guessing your every move and making you doubt your abilities. It’s exhausting, isn’t it? The constant chatter, the negative self-talk—it can leave […]

Have you ever caught yourself waiting for a sign—a thumbs-up from a friend, a “like” on your latest post, or an approving comment from a colleague—before you can truly believe in your own decisions? It’s as if the validation of others holds the key to your confidence, your peace of mind, and your self-worth. Here’s […]

Failure sucks. No sugarcoating it. Whether it’s a missed goal, a tough conversation that went sideways, or something you poured your heart into that didn’t pan out — failure can trigger shame, regret, and a heavy inner critic ready to remind you of every “what if” and “I should have.” But what if I told […]

The Lie I Inherited I was taught not to choose myself. Not in the dramatic, villainous way—no one sat me down and said, “You don’t matter.” But in the subtle, everyday ways that sink in deep: when I was praised for being serviceful, “motherly”, for putting others first, for being “low maintenance.” When I was […]

Celebrating your wins—big or small—isn’t just a feel-good moment; it’s a science-backed strategy for boosting motivation, improving mental health, and achieving long-term success. Here’s why acknowledging your victories is essential for your brain and how it can transform your life. 1. Activates Your Brain’s Reward System When you celebrate a win, your brain releases dopamine, […]

That Helped Me Break Free From the Daily Grind For the past four years, I’ve been living my absolute DREAM life. I travel the world, have an incredible relationship, and run a business I genuinely love. People often tell me how “lucky” I am, but let me be honest with you—luck wasn’t what got me […]