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For a long time, I wrestled with a question that felt impossible to answer: Who am I without the rules? Without the roles I was taught to play? Without the expectations that shaped every part of my identity? Growing up, I never had the space to ask this question or explore the answer. My identity […]

For most of my life, I believed my worth came from how well I could disappear. I was raised in a culture where being a “good woman” meant being supportive, not central—present, but never loud. Seen, but not heard. There was no space for softness unless it served someone else. No space for questions unless […]

There was a time in my life when prayer was a ritual—something I did with great reverence, precision, and structure. I prayed over every meal, morning and night, always on my knees, often following the structure of the Lord’s Prayer. I was taught that prayer was about surrender, about never asking for too much, and […]

I used to believe that certainty was the point.That faith meant clarity. Obedience. Doing what I was told.That questioning meant falling away. That curiosity was the gateway to deception. I used to believe in black-and-white. But like so many others who’ve walked the path of deconstruction, I’ve come to learn that real growth—the kind that […]